gogetitorletitgo

GO GET IT!

OR

LET IT GO!

And play it cool

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Dreams are choking me now, it doesn't mean I don't dare to dream anymore. It's just... enough! Get a life, dear... me :')

The biggest problem of mine is: I don't dare to decide. I'm a slow decision-maker. So, before deciding something I would like to weigh many options... and sometime it leads me to be overthinker. What would I become? What I want to be? Which one is better for me? Then... time's up! And after decision making, yep I was never satisfied... I dream and I wish something bigger, something that I don't choose, something that anyone else choose except me. But hey! In fact, my decision isn't that bad. I need to change. To be more thankful, to be more effective and efficient.

Then I read it:

Two types of decision-makers: Satisficers are those who make a decision or take action once their criteria are met. That doesn’t mean they’ll settle for mediocrity; their criteria can be very high; but as soon as they find the car, the hotel, or the pasta sauce that has the qualities they want, they’re satisfied. 

Maximizers want to make the optimal decision. So even if they see a bicycle or a photographer that would seem to meet their requirements, they can’t make a decision until after they’ve examined every option, so they know they’re making the best possible choice…In a fascinating book, The Paradox of Choice, Barry Schwartz argues that satisficers tend to be happier than maximizers. Maximizers must spend a lot more time and energy to reach a decision, and they’re often anxious about whether they are, in fact, making the best choice. 

— Gretchen Rubin

Source:
Don't Overthink It: 5 Tips for Daily Decision-Making
http://99u.com/articles/7043/dont-overthink-it-5-tips-for-daily-decision-making

So I think, I need criteria or target, then choose and finish what I have to finish. Be thankful. Believe in myself.

Rum, you need to get things done, for your own good, don't just float in space without any purpose or destination.

I'm a dreamer, forever and always. But I have to turn some "I wish" into "I will". Turn dream into reality.

http://weheartit.com/entry/118078345/via/audrey_cfc

Bismillah :)