Thursday, December 12, 2013
Fate
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
That Man
Who idiot but genius at the same time
Who quite but playful at the same time
Who strange but so close at the same time
Who passionate but lost at the same time
Who have guts but fragile at the same time
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Quoted from @nytimes: "Why Are There Still So Few Women in Science? http://nyti.ms/171SHrI "
So the article written by Eileen Pollack she met some professor, while she inquiring about that issue, is it because some women aren’t genius enough? Or because... what?
“your problem is you keep looking around to see how the other guys are doing. Keep your eyes on your own lane, swim your fastest and you’ll win.”
- Michael Zeller
“Maybe women are victims of misperception,”
- Roger Howe
“Women need more positive reinforcement, and men need more negative reinforcement. Men wildly overestimate their learning abilities, their earning abilities. Women say, ‘Oh, I’m not good, I won’t earn much, whatever you want to give me is O.K.’ ”
-Meg Urry
After read that article more completely... I know... No matter how much the obstacles, we just have to face it. It's proceed us.
Stay strong :)
Regards,
A. A. W.
Thursday, August 29, 2013
PHOENIX!!!
Entertainment show them what you dooooo with meee~!!
Oh My God, I love Phoenix. Whatever you say, the band freak inside of me comeee agaaaaain.....
But why today? I post about it?
It's because I watch a film "Now You See Me" you know... that film about magician... and the closing song on the credits... I think I knew it.... It's Phoenix! It's Entertainment by Phoenix. OH MY! This band! I love this band. *start freakin out*
So magical.... but so far from fake... This band so original, I don't know who inspired them. I can't compare them with certain band that I knew... I love the feeling when I heard their song, the feeling of "something new" and "special"
Do you know thomas' france accent? I think no one can imitate his accent. But not just about that... the music.... first song that booming I thought Lisztomania... I love the music, each of instrument player in that band take their special part, their song enjoyable and energetic at the same time.
And when somepeople talk about long distance call covered by paramore.... some of them sayin that paramore version... is better. Oh no! It's different! I love paramore too okay... but can't you listen? It's totally different... Don't compare. If you love the one than the other one, it's your taste of music who take parts not the music. Just my opinion... don't take it too deep.
But I'm a bit annoyed by the mv of entertainment...
ABSURD
But it's okay, I love their music... they already win someone's heart here :p
But youtube can give you more than MV, guess what? Live performance!!!
Phoenix - Live at Lollapalooza Chicago 2013
See you!
Sunday, July 28, 2013
Sacrifice?
Sometimes you hurt someone.
The one who always fights for you.
The one who wants to be with you, who always wants to be your best friend.
Finally, that person will believe however he/she try to hold you... the thing is you don't have any urge to hold her/him back.
You don't really need people.
You really hurt them who try really hard... fight for your own sake... but you just like "It's okay I won't take part."
People use drug, left by the one they love, bullied, see their parents fight everyday, etc and every-time they just like "It's okay. I resign." "I can't. I won't go.. I won't try." "I'm alone."
Friday, July 26, 2013
Random Post about 3 Great Woman
gua kembali terkagum-kagum sama soekarno... dan ngenes akan Indonesia.
You know what? Tembagapura itu gunungnya isi emas ya, dan di rampok seenaknya ya.. udah lah jangan ngomongin ini, sakit hati deh.
Dan malemnya gua teringat guru sejarah gua pas SMA ngomongin soekarno sama marilyn monroe...
Voila! Tiba-tiba gua berada di page Foto-foto presiden soekarno yang luar biasa.
Cantik nggaaak?
#1 Marilyn Monroe
Sejujurnya gua sedih ngeliat cewe cantik satu ini... dia "dipake" gitu... sebagai "alat"... tapi dia itu menurut gua berhati kuat... ngerti nggak maksud gua? Pokoknya lawannya berhati lemah lah... ngerti lah ya... begitulah yang gua fikirkan setelah baca quote-nya (Marilyn Monroe Quotes - Goodreads)
Ternyata... dia tipe insecure.. mirip lah mbaknya sama gua... nilai plus deh. Pokoknya baca quote2 dia, inside... kita tuh mirip lhoh. Dan quote terakhirnya di page itu... “Dogs never bite me. Just humans.”
Yeah... made me sad but life must go on. I love those girls who have many thoughts, who experience many hurts, but their smile still awesome.
She was found dead in a bedroom, her death so mysterious.
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
A Rule of Dreaming? and Success...
From:
The Secret by Rhonda Byrne
My Summary:
Part A
1) Ask
2) Believe
3) Receive
Part B
1. Gratitude
2. Vision
3. Be Positive
I also ever read--just a glance--a book by someone about build your dream
1) You need to write your dreams
2) Make your 'dream ladder'... it's just like steps to go there
3) Check your progress
You know? I'm the kind of read-the-instruction-before-use-a-tool person... I observe more when I have to decide something... So it's quite interesting when people who reach their dreams tell their story how to go there... How about you? Do you have a rule of dreaming or key to success?
But actually I can get a conclusion that if you have a dream you need to believe your dream, you really have to not letting any space for doubt or hesitation.
Or if your dream quite absurd you really need something we call hard work, in your own way to go there may be it won't be easy... but your experience will make your success more last longer, stable and you can face many obstacle more easily. Because everything instant is okay but not better than something with long process before ready to be served.
and, remember this statement: "If you really want it, you really can achieve it. If you can't achieve it, may be not yet... or you don't really want it, there's something more."
another statement, my old tweet: @JustIPB_ "It's not about your dream. It's about how you execute your dream." :') -- @Iwan9S10A #3rdJUST
The lovely fact is... sometimes some success people didn't realize when they've done a kind of hard work. They don't know or may be don't have time to think that they are hard workers. They focusing on what they want. When it comes to work they thing "It's just something I really love.."; "Something, I enjoy in it."; "It's just something that I need to pursue.." or "It's just something that have to be done."
And suddenly, even before they recognize it, they already got something that people used to call "success".
Night,
arumamelia.
Saturday, July 6, 2013
We are floating...
And, we just can do nothing with something we really like
And in the end we do something we don't really like nor we do really like
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Antara Kepo dan Peduli
Teman, kali ini saya ingin mengingatkan sedikit (satu poin saja) mengenai kepada-siapa-anda-bercerita baik itu cerita bahagia atau pun problem anda. Intinya berceritalah kepada orang yang kira-kira peduli dengan Anda. Jangan buang-buang waktu anda bercerita kepada orang yang hanya ingin tahu tapi tidak peduli.
Orang yang tidak Anda kenal, yang Anda temui begitu saja di suatu perjalanan, bisa saja peduli. Tapi teman sendiri malah terkadang hanya sekedar ingin tahu. Ada juga sahabat yang ingin tahu + peduli. Dan ada juga keluarga yang mereka sangat peduli pada Anda, tapi Anda bercerita ataupun tidak mereka sama sekali tidak mempermasalahkan itu, itu hak Anda sepenuhnya, jika sudah sedekat ini dengan seseorang, bahkan sebelum bercerita, mereka sudah mengerti apa yang sedang Anda rasakan, terkadang kalian hanya perlu menangis di bahu mereka tanpa perlu panjang lebar bercerita.
Yang terakhir, bahkan sebelum Anda menangis Ia sudah tahu segalanya, Anda hanya perlu percaya. Dia lah Tuhan Anda. Pencipta diri Anda, termasuk pencipta hati Anda.
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Midnight. Thinking. In my bed.
But, do you know? I am that person who deny every regret. I'd rather choose to say "may be next time..." than "what if..." may be today I'm just a little bit sad and tired to think about my alibi of situation after certainty--my denial of regret. I don't want to think anymore, I just want to daydreaming all day long. Ah... I just wanna sleep. I really don't know why am I so lazy? Sometimes I hate to think about my planning progress. I just want to dream and sleep. I'm afraid of the future, anxious and worry.
Sometimes I really love the past, because whatever and however it is, I already can passed it. No more worry and anxiety about that. But future? Sometimes, I am really afraid my future would be worse than my present. I know it's not good. All I have to do is do the best, and let God do the rest. But I'm just afraid.
Well, It's not a 'I-wanna-be-forever-young' syndrome. I do love growing up. Be mature. And of course transform from a girl to a lady. What I'm afraid of is a spinning wheel... I mean you do know about the quote that "Life is like a wheel, sometimes you're up, sometimes you're down." How about my life? I always think my life is a grateful life, full of blessing and happiness... so am I up now? And my future will be down? Or am I to often to escape from going down?
Ah God you're the want who made this heart, please bring tranquility here. God you're the one who made me please guard me. God please give me braveness to face to fact that was destined for me. Please...
Thursday, June 20, 2013
Jagalah Kesehatan
Lee sung gi: "Kita berdua harus sama-sama hidup..."
"Aku tidak ingin meninggalkan mu sendirian di dunia ini... sakit... sedih... dan sendiri..."
"Kita... harus sama-sama hidup."
Damn it! You really stole my heart... That's it! A real true love. Romeo and Juliette is nothing.
dan di gumiho juga *udah pernah gua post*
Ada kata-kata begini...
"The real death of a person, not death of himself, but the death of his loved ones."
Liat di:
(http://anythingaml.blogspot.com/2012/06/gimme-o-to-give-opinion-about-gumiho.html)
Random post di malam hari ini dipersembahkan untuk kalian, setelah gua nonton the host... dan kepikiran tentang existence dan true love
Oh iya, dulu gua juga pernah nonton film barat di bioskop sama temen SMP... lupa film apa... Jaman dewa-dewi gitu... ada 1 cewe yang dikutuk jadi eternal... trs dia bilang:
"Trust me it's painful to be eternal, it feels like you see your dearest one dying everyday, even if it's not... but it happened in my memory everday and night."
Lupa banget itu film apa... jadi teman-teman jauhilah sikap menyakiti diri sendiri... jagalah kesehatan... karena kalo kamu sakit kamu pikir orang lain nggak sakit? Apalagi Tuhan yang ciptain kamu... ya kan?
Good night :)
Saturday, May 25, 2013
Kucing
Kasian deh! Dari jauh aja udah diusir, semua kamar langsung nutup pintu... kadang dia manis bgt, kalo dimeong-meongin suka nyaut. Tapi kadang dia suka pipis sembarangan. Trs tipe kucing tuh beda-beda ada yang diusir langsung pergi, ada yang diem aja, malah ada yg nerobos gitu, numpang lewat atau apalah. Ya tapi tetep gua nggak pernah megang kucing, takut dicakar atau digigit.
Ada 1 kucing yang gua kasih nama, hitler... warnanya hitam-putih gitu, jd ada warna bulu pas di atas mulutnya corak item gtu deh... jd kaya kumis hitler hha. Dia bandel suka ngacak-ngacak tempat sampah, nggak pernah kenyang kayanya, tp dia kurus... lumayan bersih juga keliatannya, mungkin karena bulunya putih item. Jd gua nggak sebel-sebel banget.
Bentar lagi gua bakal pindah ke kontrakan... udah nggak asrama lagi, trs karena ada masa transisi dari angkatan gua ke angkatan bawah gua gtu... mungkin bakal ada libur dulu, trs nanti kucing-kucing asrama makannya gimana ya? Allah udah ngatur rejeki masing-masing makhluknya Lah. Pokoknya kalian yg sopan ya kalo nanti angkatan dibawah aku udh nempatin asrama, kalo minta makanan ya makan yang dikasih. Kalo buang air di lapangan aja di rerumputan. Jangan ngeselin? oke?!
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Lagi Bete
Feeling bilang si karena udah lama nggak baca... entah komik... novel... koran sekalipun... bahkan nonton tv jarang... rasanya otak teriak-teriak, minta di recharge. Pengen bgt dibuat wide open lah kalo kata gotye.
Rasanya isolated banget guaaaaa please.
Udah lama banget nggak ngerasain perpustakaan yang atmosfirnya udh nerima gua banget, yang reachable, yg judgeless... Gua nggak suka banget perpus yg dimana kalo masuk situ lu dianggap anak rajin. Geek bukan berarti nerd kan?
Nyadar nggak gua jarang ngepost akhir2 ini? Ya karena gua udah jarang baca... paling baca TL twitter atau news feed facebook. Yang nggak bener2 berasa baca.
I need holiday
Free time
Me time
I crave books
I crave news
I crave unformal knowledge
Ilmu yg didapet tdk disertai dengan beban... Ilmu yg bisa kita didapetin tanpa perlu dites di akhir pencarian ilmu itu.
asdfghjkl BAD MOOD
Saturday, April 27, 2013
Maaf saya bukan benci Anda
Maaf saya bukan benci Anda
Saya menjaga jarak agar nantinya tidak ada yang terluka
Maaf saya bukan ingin terlihat buruk rupa
Saya hanya berpakaian rapih tapi sopan, agar sebagai wanita, saya dilihat pribadinya bukan sekedar ditonton saja tubuhnya
Mengertikah Anda?
Begini saja...
Suatu hari nanti Anda juga akan punya seorang istri bukan? Apa Anda akan tenang bila penampilan istri Anda begitu 'mengundang' hingga semua mata pria tertuju padanya?
Anda tidak akan tenang saya yakin
Istri Anda pun tidak akan tenang
Pria yang memuja istri Anda juga tidak akan tenang, saya sangat yakin
Mengerti bukan? mengapa saya menjaga penampilan saya... Ya, agar dalam kasus ini tidak ada yang dirugikan...
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Radio Kampus
Hari itu gua berasa orang kerja, tp ngerjain passion gua gtu... Gua cattetin deh radio kampus yang berhasil gua temuin... sayang sekali terbengkalai dan nggak sempet-sempet gua post...
Kali ini gua bakal ngepost twitter radio-radio kampus itu... Di post ini bakal gua sampein list twitter dari radio-radio kampus gitu silahkan dikepoin masing-masing :)
Saturday, April 13, 2013
Mengenai Sistem Pendidikan dan Kita
*edit skrg 2017 UN udh gak jd syarat kelulusan dan ada UN perbaikan segala
#4 Dari Prof. Rhenald Kasali (Guru Besar FE UI)
LIMA belas tahun lalu saya pernah mengajukan protes pada guru sebuah sekolah tempat anak saya belajar di Amerika Serikat. Masalahnya, karangan berbahasa Inggris yang ditulis anak saya seadanya itu telah diberi nilai E (excellence) yang artinya sempurna, hebat, bagus sekali. Padahal dia baru saja tiba di Amerika dan baru mulai belajar bahasa.
Karangan yang dia tulis sehari sebelumnya itu pernah ditunjukkan kepada saya dan saya mencemaskan kemampuan verbalnya yang terbatas. Menurut saya tulisan itu buruk, logikanya sangat sederhana. Saya memintanya memperbaiki kembali,sampai dia menyerah.
Rupanya karangan itulah yang diserahkan anak saya kepada gurunya dan bukan diberi nilai buruk, malah dipuji. Ada apa? Apa tidak salah memberi nilai? Bukankah pendidikan memerlukan kesungguhan? Kalau begini saja sudah diberinilai tinggi, saya khawatir anak saya cepat puas diri.
Sewaktu saya protes, ibu guru yang menerima saya hanya bertanya singkat. “Maaf Bapak dari mana?”
“Dari Indonesia,” jawab saya.
Dia pun tersenyum.
BUDAYA MENGHUKUM
Pertemuan itu merupakan sebuah titik balik yang penting bagi hidup saya. Itulah saat yang mengubah cara saya dalam mendidik dan membangun masyarakat.
“Saya mengerti,” jawab ibu guru yang wajahnya mulai berkerut, namun tetap simpatik itu. “Beberapa kali saya bertemu ayah-ibu dari Indonesia yang anak anaknya dididik di sini,”lanjutnya. “Di negeri Anda, guru sangat sulit memberi nilai. Filosofi kami mendidik di sini bukan untuk menghukum, melainkan untuk merangsang orang agar maju. Encouragement! ” Dia pun melanjutkan argumentasinya.
“Saya sudah 20 tahun mengajar. Setiap anak berbeda beda. Namun untuk anak sebesar itu, baru tiba dari negara yang bahasa ibunya bukan bahasa Inggris, saya dapat menjamin, ini adalah karya yang hebat,” ujarnya menunjuk karangan berbahasa Inggris yang dibuat anak saya.
Dari diskusi itu saya mendapat pelajaran berharga. Kita tidak dapat mengukur prestasi orang lain menurut ukuran kita.
Sunday, March 10, 2013
Dear Mom
Dear Mom,
I live good here. Your daughter is healthy but still clumsy. hhe. I live so well here, I have so many new friends don't worry, they're so kind and funny, I just didn't capture it so much. I don't have camera nor a good internet connection to share it anyway.
Mom... Sometimes, I'm too tired, lazy, sleepy but since today I succeded to collect all of my tasks anyway. Your daughter do what she have to do it's more than just awesome hha. I'm hungry, I miss your dishes.
Mom... how can I be so tired?
Mom... I hate to be weak
Mom... can you still remembering me to do the pray?
Mom... can someone hate everybody at a time?
Mom... can someone be so burdensome to a person who usually being the burdensome one?
Well mom.... wie geht's? I hope you're also healthy cause I'm not gonna massage you when you're tired, distance is a kind of problem sometimes hhe.
I always pray for you, and I know you too..
See you,
Amel
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Masalah Internetan
Nggak enak deh. Jadi ya sudahlah tertanda hari ini saya akan meminimalisir kegiatan mengakses dunia maya saya. Jadi (lagi) mohon maaf kalo respon saya rada-rada lama ya... (contoh: lama bales tweet).
Terimakasih atas pengertiannya. Wassalam.
See you in the real world :p
Friday, February 1, 2013
Blogspot Problems - Bad Day on Blogspot
Junk.
#2 - I was rejected
So, when I'm on my way to write this post.. that dialogue box keep bothering me! Even if I click on "Yes, I want to log in again" or "Close" Urgh... they're still appearing...............................
Kepo bgt si! You really don't have to know where on earth am I, okay?!
Mood: Bad
SORRY FOR MY BAD ENGLISH
A.
Monday, January 28, 2013
This
Saturday, January 5, 2013
Flashback to 2012 - Hopes and Faith
A year ago I was dreaming about many things...
I'm gonna be a surgeon
I'm gonna be an architect
I'm gonna be an engineer
I'm gonna be a detective
I'm gonna be an editor
I'm gonna be a radio announcer
Etc.
I will study literature
I will study art
I will study civil engineering
I will study machine engineering
I will study about investigation, crime and forensic
Etc.
I will go to England
I will go to Germany
I will go to Korea
Etc.
Yeah! College admission test... really testing me.. mentally..
Ahaha
Untill now, I never ignore all of my dreams (including the "etc") :)... I keep it calm inside my heart.. I'm just a person who has 1 body.
And I'm totally happy with who I am, today.
Do you believe? That God grant all of our pray?
Me? I believe all of my dreams come true in an unexpected version.
And, do you know? Although I can't be everything at a time..
When I listen I can feel many things.
When I write I can be anyone.
When I read I can learn anything.
When I draw I can go anywhere.
Etc.
Forget genie who just grant three wishes ahaha
Yeah people are right.. we need to believe what we want to believe. Sometimes we are too ignorant to notice many bright and beauty things in this live.. too ignorant to feel blessed by God... too ignorant to notice that many dreams of us come true even before we wish it.
I believe I still have a long story to be discovered.
I believe live is beautiful.
Jan 5, 2013
A. A. W.
About Me
- Arum Amelia W
- South Tangerang, Banten, Indonesia
- Do you know, how many stars in the sky? Do you know how many flowers in this universe? I don't know. But alone, or together they are awesome. I want to be like them.