Showing posts with label Girls; Cewe. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Girls; Cewe. Show all posts

Monday, December 6, 2021

Olahraga

 Sedikit foto-foto pas olahraga:



Ayo kita dukung ruang terbuka hijau ramah lingkungan dan daerah resapan air yg memadai! Kan enak tuh bisa buat olahraga, jalan-jalan santai, ada yg piknik segala tuh

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Go Teacher: If you want to accomplish something, health should be your priority #misaeng

Thursday, December 3, 2020

Webtoon Adaptation: Beauty Water (2020), Nari

Diadaptasi dr Webtoon Tales of Unusual
Nauzubillah min dzalik bgt ni org smp akhir, tp kdg yg dark gini malah bagus ya
ga papah apa adanya, the dark side of human being really can go that far bisa ngeri gitu manusia

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

Takut


Udah lama gua pengen cerita di sini, tapi gua bingung gmn ceritanya. Pokoknya ada satu dua tiga hal/kejadian yang bikin gua depresi gtu. Dan gua bisa suka tiba2 nge-chat temen gue gtu “Bet, gua takut bet.” semacam itu. Suka tiba2 kebayang dan kepikiran. Suka tiba2 nangis. Suka tiba2 nggak mau keluar rumah/kamar.

Sebenernya gua gak menghadapi yg aneh-aneh bgt. Tapi intinya gua cuma mau bilang, kalo kalian cowok coba lah kalo lagi bercanda atau emosi di depan perempuan lebih hati-hati... jaga pandangan, jaga omongan, jaga kelakuan.

Have consent and respect gtu. Gak boleh asal ngambil foto atau nyuri foto tanpa izin, baik di dunia nyata maupun di sosmed. Dian Sastro aja marah kan waktu tiba2 dirangkul fans-nya trs minta foto kan? Padahal dia publik figur. Udh biasa ketemu org ramai. Tp ya namanya cewek tuh sensitif. Nggak susah kan izin?

Yang paling penting jaga omongan dan perangai si. Jangan kasar. Jangan menjurus. Jangan mengumpat. Jaga pikiran, gua tau kok tertarik lawan jenis itu fitrah. Tp kan banyak gtu di dunia ini yg bisa diomongin/pikirkan ada buku, musik, berita, film, makanan, dll. Gua tuh orgnya sensitif bgt masalahnya, overthinker pula. Lengkap sudah.

Gua sampe pernah bilang sama bokap gua “Pak aku takut cowok, gmn kalo aku gak bisa nikah”

Bokap gua cuma bilang “Bapak juga dulu takut cewek”

Dan gua cuma bisa nangis. Alhamdulillah, Allah kirim manusia2 baik di hidup gua. Tapi sebenernya gua gak takut sama semua cowok si, temen sebimbingan gua cowok, dosen gua cowok, bapak kosan gua cowok, biasa aja. Waktu itu gua juga nunggu KRL ngobrol sama cowok, biasa aja. Sama bapak gojek jg biasa. Anak yg punya rental komik cowok, biasa aja. Yg jaga perpus cowok, biasa aja. Tapi kalo depresinya kambuh, gua bisa tiba2 deg2an kalo ngomongin topik “nikah” “cewe cantik” “fisik” “cinta2an”.

Sekarang si udah mendingan dibandingin tahun lalu. Alhamdulillah. But, I’m still struggling here. Still collecting all the shattered pieces. Still rebuild my self-confidence. Still easily triggered sometime.

:’)

Ya udh gtu aja.

"Apabila kamu diberi musibah oleh Allah, maka ucapkanlah doa "Allahumma ajirni fi musibati wa akhlif khairan min ha,” (Ya Allah, berilah aku pahala dalam musibah ini, dan gantikanlah bagiku dengan sesuatu yang lebih baik daripadanya)” (HR. Muslim, Ibnu Majah. Malik, dan Ahmad bin Hanbal)
Sekarang gua paham kenapa Ibu2 bnyk yg galak2. Skrg gua bnyk belajar sih. Dan gua benci bgt victim blaming "makanya yg syari" "makanya nikah muda" "makanya ngaji". For anyone outhere who read this, semua org berhak dihormatin ya! Gimanapun penampilannya. Gak cuman buat cowok sih. Cewek jg kadang hrs lebih ngejaga jgn asal sayang2an rangkul2an lah kalo gak deket2 bgt, baik ke lawan jenis maupun sesama jenis, krn gak semua orang nyaman deket2 gtu...

Intinya saling ngejaga dan hormat. Have consent. Have respect.

Allah SWT berfirman:
قَالَتْ اِنِّيْۤ اَعُوْذُ  بِالرَّحْمٰنِ مِنْكَ اِنْ كُنْتَ تَقِيًّا
"Dia (Maryam) berkata, Sungguh, aku berlindung kepada Tuhan Yang Maha Pengasih terhadapmu, jika engkau orang yang bertakwa."
(QS. Maryam 19: Ayat 18)

Fear Allah.

Saturday, April 29, 2017

Do you miss me?

One of the perks of having an introvert friend is... you have a good listener. I'm an introvert sometimes (I'm an ambivert, actually). I do love to hear someone's thoughts :3

It's kinda awesome feeling, when I'm back, and my friends can't stop talking to me. Like... you've been holding it for so long right? You've been waiting me all this time right? You miss me right? Wkwk. I'm here okay. I'm here. Tell me your stories. It's okay. It's alright.

I can't name this awesome feeling. I think I'm touched, they really treasure my presence. And also, they don't really say they miss me but they show me that they do really miss me. When I speak or ask they don't ignore me. They don't say mean things too.

But... Why I love to "disappear"? One of the reasons: because I can die anytime. I don't really like attachment. I don't want to depend on someone. And I don't want someone to depend on me. Let us learn how to depend to Allah (and ourselves first). I'm simply a free spirit actually.


Friday, December 9, 2016

She Was Pretty


She was pretty. She spent half her life plucking, waxing, practising how to wear makeup, applying makeup, shopping for this, shopping for that, taking pictures of herself to show others just how good she was at dressing herself and how beautiful she looked with the makeup she wore, she wore clothes which hung gracefully around her frame, those perfect skinny jeans, that silk blouse which hung to her curves elegantly, those high heels which made her legs look more slender, the fake eyelashes, the fake hair extensions…but it’s ‘my body’ she said. ‘Its up to me how I dress myself, nothing to do with anybody else’ she said ‘il change one day if I’m supposed to’ she said.
Then one day she found herself being lowered into her grave, no fake eyelashes, or perfect fit jeans, no makeup, no heels, just a white sheet, being lowered into the final place her body would ever visit, where her body will slowly disintegrate to nothing as maggots feast on the skin she spent so many hours beautifying for the world. ‘Its my body’ she argued when some advised her and others criticised her, but it was never her body, her body always belonged to Allah swt, her body was a test from her Lord to see whether she spent her life calling it ‘her’ body or treating it like it was a body which belonged to Allah swt. ‘Indeed we belong to Allah and Indeed to Allah we will return’ (Surah Baqarah: 156)
May Allah swt protect us from this way of thinking and open our hearts and eyes to the truth that nothing belongs to us but with the permission of Allah swt. May we be protected from misusing our bodies being tempted by the Dunya. Ameen

#repost @the_real_hijab_in_islam

Sunday, December 27, 2015

Langkah Dasar Singkat Membersihkan dan Make Up Wajah

Beli ini itu tp bingung gimana makenya, gimana urutannya, berikut ini langkah-langkah perawatan cewe sehari-hari secara singkat... Semoga bermanfaat

- Perawatan -
• Cuci Tangan
• Soft Lens
• Cleanser
 - Oil
 - Milk
 - Facial foam
*diantara tiga pembersih ini nggak harus pake semuanya kok hhe
• Toner *aku pribadi kurang suka si
• Obat (Jerawat)/Serum/Essence/Vitamin + Eye Cream *bila perlu aja si, soalnya katanya buat 25 ke atas aja dan mahal jg, tergantung sih.
• Moisturizer/pelembab

- Make up -
• Tunggu pelembab kering~
• Sunscreen *terutama kalo keluar jam 10 pagi sampai 3 sore
• Primer
• Bedak
 - Foundation/BB,CC,DD cream
 - Concealer
 - Loose Powder
 - Compact Powder/Two Way Cake/Cushion
• Eye
 - Eyebrow
 - Eyeshadow
 - Eyeliner
 - Maskara+Penjepit
 - Bulu Mata Palsu
• Contouring
• Blush On
• Lip
 - ada bab tersendiri sih, masih perlu baca-baca hehe

Friday, December 11, 2015

Ngobrol Sama Fashion Icon

Tahun ini menurut gue agak-agak nyenengin gimana gituh myehehe. Soalnya secara tidak diduga-duga komentar gue dibales Mba Dian Pelangi dan ada komentar yang direply gitu sama Melissa Tan AsNTM. Wkwk. Judulnya rada lebay aja biar asik. Nggak deng. Bingung ngasih judul aja.

Pertama, Dian Pelangi:
Mba Dian ini Fashion Designer asli Indonesia, salah satu most influential people in fashion industry versi BOF sejajaran dengan GD, Alexa Chung, etc, dan dia satu-satunya orang Indonesia, satu-satunya yang pake kerudung kalo nggak salah, dan Mba Dian ini ambassador berbagai produk, trs Mba Dian ini udah ngisi berbagai seminar international, udah nyelenggarain fashion show dimana-mana, temennya banyak, udah keliling dunia, haish pokoknya keren dah. Masya Allah.

Melissa Tan:

Melissa Tan ini model, Asia's Next Top Model Cycle 3, cantik, asalnya dari malaysia, pinter bahasa inggris juga, kalo masalah tinggi dan berat bedan nggak perlu dipertanyakan lagi lah ya namanya juga model, di AsNTM keliatan bgt pekerja keras nggak banyak drama atau sepik, dan bagus juga kok, kalo masalah brand dan pengalaman kerja udah banyak lah ya namanya juga model professional... suka aja lah pokoknya

Sunday, February 1, 2015

Not a teenage anymooooore

Haloooooooooooooo apa kabaaaaar? Kangen nggak sama gueee? seakan seluruh dunia baca blog gue wkwk. Ya siapa tau pada kangen sama gue walaupun sebenernya nggak ada yang kangen si, yang baca juga nggak ada, iya kok tau, kalo pada baca kan malah malu *tersipu* gue pengen ngasih kabar kalo *drum roll* umur gue udah 20 tahun! Horeeeeeee~ gue jg nggak tau si kenapa "hore"? kenapa nggak "astaghfirullah makin tua"?

Banyak yang doain semoga makin dewasa... apa itu dewasa? semacam sesuatu yang bisa dimakan?

Tapi entah kenapa akhir-akhir ini gue merasakan puber lho, sebenernya gue udah agak lupa si tanda-tanda puber (puber: semacam proses menjadi dewasa) yang sebenernya. Tapi gue mulai merasa tambah dewasa kok beneran, makin sering sisiran iya aja udah, anggep aja rajin sisiran tanda puber dan gue makin menyadari dosa-dosa gue, makin berusaha ke arah lebih baik, cie banget... ihiw... doain ya mudah-mudahan gue bener-bener berhasil menjadi manusia yang lebih baik hari ke hari... Aamiin ya Allah.

Ada satu hal yang sebenernya membuat gue terganggu akhir-akhir ini... Gue mulai sadar gue adalah perempuan *halah* maksud gue ya gue bukan anak kecil lagi... dan jadi perempuan itu... ya bayangin aja seumur hidupnya perempuan itu ngeluarin darah bergelas-gelas, dan susu juga bergelas-gelas, ngeri ya... terus siap-siap aja ditanyain "kapan ngasih cucu? udah cocok lhoh jadi Ibu" nggak sekedar "kapan kawin?"... hmmmmmm jadi perempuan itu adalah amanat yang nggak main-main *sok serius*

Sebenernya banyak si tuntutan-tuntutan buat manusia-manusia di umur-umur se-gue ini... NIGHTMARE

Tapi gue sadar kok gue udah mulai dewasa... Sejujurnya gue agak panik sekarang. Berarti gue harus mulai mandiri. Harus lebih ditingkatkan lagi belajar, berdoa, dan bersabarnya... dan harus lebih sungguh-sungguh. PADAHAL hati gue selalu awet muda... masih seperti yang dulu yaitu gadis cilik lincah nian yang riang selalu sepanjang hari... walaupun suka tiba-tiba nangis. Jadi, sebenernya gue emang agak shock sih tetiba udah 20 tahun aja. Udah bukan teenage lagi.............................

Friday, January 30, 2015

God, Please Hire Me

They say, I have potential to be a workaholic. But they also say I’m a woman. I wish God hire me as a Mom and a wife… and I wish I can be a good one. Woman can work like a man, but being a good mom and a good wife… not everybody meet the requirements.
Some people need a career. But, some career need a certain people.
Being a working mom or being a full-time mom? Both are wonderful.
Some decision is hard to choose. So, always be nice to women.
How about, being a wife or live independently? Some woman can live independently. They can make money. They can make meal. They can do the housekeeping. And, they can control their desire. But if there’s someone who was created special for you… just like a pair of shoes… wouldn’t it be nice? Wouldn’t you feel whole?
Sometimes it isn’t as simple as “a pair of shoes”…
But… God, please hire me… hire me as a mom... hire me as a wife... I believe in you… don’t let me doubt myself. Because doubt is harmful, doubt try to make me lose hope while you always give us hope, doubt is devil’s weapon. If one day I feel doubt… I wish, I would always seek your help through patience and pray*.
With love,
Me

والله أعلمُ بالـصـواب
*Al-Baqarah (2:45)

Monday, January 26, 2015

My Dress Style

Safe and sophisticated. Your style is fully functional and adapts to different areas of your life. People don’t really see how fashionable you are unless it is a special occasion. On all other occasions, you wear the same old things and don’t draw attention to yourself, which makes those other times even more head-turning. Well-played.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Soft Voice

Who?



Yap! Soyou <3

Pokoknya lagi suka sama Soyou gitu deh ueee... suaranya lembut bikin hari-hari lebih indah *lebay*
Hahahaha

Friday, July 26, 2013

Random Post about 3 Great Woman

Jadi di malam sabtu yang lengang ini *halah* dimulai dari tadi sore baca mengenai freeport berserta berbagai konspirasinya di sini: Konspirasi JF.Kennedy, Sukarno, Suharto, CIA dan Freeport
gua kembali terkagum-kagum sama soekarno... dan ngenes akan Indonesia.

You know what? Tembagapura itu gunungnya isi emas ya, dan di rampok seenaknya ya.. udah lah jangan ngomongin ini, sakit hati deh.

Dan malemnya gua teringat guru sejarah gua pas SMA ngomongin soekarno sama marilyn monroe...

Voila! Tiba-tiba gua berada di page Foto-foto presiden soekarno yang luar biasa.
Cantik nggaaak?

#1 Marilyn Monroe
Sejujurnya gua sedih ngeliat cewe cantik satu ini... dia "dipake" gitu... sebagai "alat"... tapi dia itu menurut gua berhati kuat... ngerti nggak maksud gua? Pokoknya lawannya berhati lemah lah... ngerti lah ya... begitulah yang gua fikirkan setelah baca quote-nya (Marilyn Monroe Quotes - Goodreads)
Ternyata... dia tipe insecure.. mirip lah mbaknya sama gua... nilai plus deh. Pokoknya baca quote2 dia, inside... kita tuh mirip lhoh. Dan quote terakhirnya di page itu... “Dogs never bite me. Just humans.”
Yeah... made me sad but life must go on. I love those girls who have many thoughts, who experience many hurts, but their smile still awesome.
She was found dead in a bedroom, her death so mysterious.

Monday, December 31, 2012

Limit


Can you guess? :)

[Btw don't read! If you won't to read it till the end... Cause I was worried you misunderstood the italic-ed words if you don't read it completely]
Thank you ^^

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A girl who is warm and humble during the day
A classy girl who know how to enjoy the freedom of a cup of coffee
A girl whose heart gets hotter when night comes
A girl with that kind of twist

I’m a guy
A guy who is as warm as you during the day
A guy who one-shots his coffee before it even cools down
A guy whose heart bursts when night comes
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

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A girl who looks quiet but plays when she plays
A girl who puts her hair down when the right time comes
A girl who covers herself but is more sexy than a girl who bares it all
A sensable girl like that

I’m a guy
A guy who seems calm but plays when he plays
A guy who goes completely crazy when the right time comes
A guy who has bulging ideas rather than muscles
That kind of guy

Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Beautiful, loveable
Yes you, hey, yes you, hey
Now let’s go until the end

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On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two
On top of the running man is the flying man, baby baby
I’m a man who knows a thing or two

You know what I’m saying
Oppa is Gangnam style

Eh- Sexy Lady, Oppa is Gangnam style
Eh- Sexy Lady oh oh oh oh


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Ehehe... That's right it is an English translation from Gangnam Style by PSY

When I read those lyrics.. I'm just like
"Aaaaaa I want to be that kind of girl"
and
"Aaaaaa~ I want that kind of guy too"
and
"AAAAA WHAT? "till the end?" You are a man!"
ahaha just ignore me -_-

Yeah, It's just a little present and "I'm Happy Too"greet from me
For my friends who finally wear hijab
Who insyallah finally do the limit (hijab)

Hijab literally means limit
When we use hijab.. hope that
We limit ourselves from went to an inappropriate place
We limit guys from do-what-they-like to us
We limit ourselves from being too uncontrolled and deviant
And many other "we-limit-..."

Well, I'm not that kind of girl yet
But I'm not giving up yet too :3

Let's improve ourselves together.. to be better ^^
Together.. To be more remembered Xp

note: although my hijabers friends not read it I just need to express my happiness
Well, Congratulation Fellaaaaas!!!

*=I hide some lyrics hehe

Sunday, November 18, 2012

Selamat Ulang Tahun Teman-teman


September 5, 1994
Gita Ayunadya

October 13, 1994
Lathvia Ardhana

October 28, 1994
Ni Putu Diah Sucitawati

November 10, 1994
Witri Nur Amalina


Kiss and pray,
-Arum

Friday, November 16, 2012

Sweaters, I adore you❣


It's cold outside~
It's cold outside~

Warm up your day!

http://kaneto.tumblr.com/post/22861430650

I love scarves, jackets, knitted tops, coffee, curtains, blankets, autumn, books, cardigans and of course sweaters... It's because their calmness, warm atmosphere, details, and also their "melancholic and loner" impression :p

That's all I need in my "me time". When they are around me suddenly I feel warm. I shouldn't tell a story--sometimes I'm bad at it, especially love story. But still, they're comfort me.

Let's go back to the topic.. Recently, I started to addicted to lookbook.nu and I found it:


http://lookbook.nu/look/4135232-hearty-lacey
 Sooo damn cute! It's formal but trendy...

And yes! Finally, I got something to be shared for my new post on this blog... Finally~
This is another kind of sweater that I found on lookbook.nu ^^


Simple but attractive. Love the turquoise ♥ 

Ah! Let me tell you! Sometimes, if you click info below the photo in lookbook.nu, you'll be linked to the online shop site where you can buy the items...
By the way, I found these--when I clicked the details information... below lookbook photo of Mayo Wo (girl with hearty lacey sweater ^^):
Oh My! How cute (>.<)

I browse another sweater on YesStyle.com. Then I found this incredibly comfortable sweater!

I want one uwaaaaaaa!!!
Hey.. why all the girls there look so elegant? (° 3°) It must be sweater effect! Ahaha

I adore sweaters!!! How about you?
Happy Hunting!


Love,
-A. A. W.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

T-Ara On Drama

As you know before, I watch k-drama :3

And I like some k-pop too :) But... just some.. I know just a little part of k-pop (not an expert in that field!) hhe

And actress, for me, is an important part to keep me watching the drama. And then I realize there's something unique. On recent years, some k-drama starred by some members of T-Ara... Wow! How talented! They are good, both at sing and act :D

Source: t-araworld.net

Soooo, here it is... I'll show you T-Ara on drama! :)

#1 Qri
as Young Mo - Queen Seon Duk (2009)
Source: asyadizi.com
Source: aliza-mehayu.blogspot.com

#2 Hyo Min

as Ban Sun Nyeo - My Girlfriend is a Gumiho (2010)
Source: lingering-sententia.blogspot.com

Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Ladies With Their Piano (Also Great Do The "Featuring" Performances)

It's common to see them with piano(s), how about, we see them with another performance?

Sara Bareilles

Source: http://www.amynicolegwaltney.com/galleries/life/

Featuring Weezer


Regina Spektor
Source: http://nnm.ru/blogs/fluty/regina_spektor_soviet_kitsch_piano_sheet_music/

Featuring Ben Folds


Vanessa Carlton
Source: http://blog.zap2it.com/pop2it/2011/05/vanessa-carltons-new-single-carousel-listen-to-it-now.html

Featuring Big Yellow Taxi


Even if they are not the main artists... I was amazed by their humm... Lovable voice ;)

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Do you know, how many stars in the sky? Do you know how many flowers in this universe? I don't know. But alone, or together they are awesome. I want to be like them.